I know it has been a long time, and if you have visited this site the past few weeks, you will have noticed most of my personal posts have been taken down. I have enjoyed blogging here for years. Some of you have followed me from my original wordpress blog, Shesahomewrecker.com, or this blog. The women I have met throughout the years, have been such a huge emotional support to me and I will be forever grateful. My blogs have provided my thoughts, feelings and emotions a place where I was able to find a sense of normalcy and sanity, in my times of devastation.
I don’t know what is going to happen with this blog. I will keep it up for a while and continue to take reader submissions. Hey, I may keep it up forever. But my time blogging here about my personal life, has come to an end. My life has changed drastically over the past few years, and I can finally say I am happy and at peace. I spent so many years riding an emotional roller-coaster I never thought would come to an end, but it has finally come to an end.
Many of you have read my story regarding Jeff. He is the reason I made the decision to pull my personal blog posts. It is now his turn to have a voice through his book, and I don’t want to ruin the story for those who have yet to read it. Jeff’s book has been a work in progress for months, but it has finally been completed. Of course, my opinion of the book would be considered bias, but I will give it anyway. This book is absolutely amazing and for those who choose to read it, I can promise you will not be disappointed. Although it is a Memoir, its read more like a novel. It has everything, heartbreak, betrayal, love, prison, self-destruction, drugs, and so much more. But above all, it is an amazing love story and a story of change. I don’t want my personal life to compromise or become the focus of his book.
Of course, I plan on continuing to post every once in a while, about whatever is on my mind, it just won’t be related to my direct personal life. All social media pages for The Betrayed Wives Club will remain and if anyone needs to get in touch with me for any reason whatsoever, please message me through the Betrayed Wives Club Facebook or fill out the Contact Us form via this blog.
I would like to let all of you ladies know, you deserve nothing but the best. I don’t want to see you wake up years later and question, “why did I stay so long?” I was miserable for far too long and I wasted so many years of my life, being treated like crap. Yes, it is possible for people to change, but they have to want to change. I stayed for many years because I wanted my little boy to be happy and grow up in a stable family. I really thought I was doing the right thing by staying, but the truth is, “I am the only one who can give my children a happy mother who loves life.” Yes, I stayed, but I was miserable and my misery affected them. What I am saying is, if you have been going through drama and they haven’t changed yet, they probably will never change. Get out now before you waste anymore time!
Once the fog started to lift, I saw everything so differently. I really was a “hot ass crazy mess” for quite some time. But you all accepted me for who I was and you listened and offered some much-needed emotional support. You truly have no idea how grateful I am. I am actually crying while I type this! LOL!
I am wishing you all nothing but happiness! Although I may not be “banging away at the keyboard”, I am still here!
For those interested in reading Jeff’s story, here is the link to Amazon for the purchase of the E-book or Paperback! If you have Kindle Unlimited, the book is free.
Take care everyone!